I get this question all the time: “How did you meet Vije”? and I only have one answer for that: Google .. Hahaha yes its true!
Let me highlight the story for you… Well I needed a photographer for models that I worked with, So I decided to search on the internet and I went to various sites but finally ended up on Vimage Media. I decided to email them (Vije) to get more info. So I did and we met and chatted… I did a trial photo shoot with him and that’s when it all started LOL…
After many weeks of chatting and meeting we decided to take our relationship to the next step… Years later we are now married with a gorgeous baby girl.
Vije and I are best friends, business partners, husband and wife. I love my relationship with him. God couldn’t have blessed me with a better partner. We think so much alike. We motivate each other and always speak what is in our heart.
My Tips for a healthy relationship:
1. Become Best friends with your husband
Do the things you used to enjoy doing together when you were dating!
Always be honest with your partner and share secrets.
2. Date your husband
Why not?! Send him some kinky messages once in a while or leave a sticky note on his computer.
Make sure you have date night at least once a month.
3. Surprise him
Whether it is getting him his favourite game or taking him out for dinner. Do something spontaneous.
4. Love him
Yes you need to show and tell him that you love him. Be affectionate.
5. Grow, Learn and Change together
Learn something new together. Try each others hobbies and support his interests.
6. Open communication
You are allowed to be honest and say what is on your mind and you are also allowed to forgive.
Help each other to become a better person.
7. Have fun
Yes! Just have fun. Laugh, giggle and do silly things together. Many people get married and then forget the meaning of fun and make marriage boring.
I believe marriage is just the next chapter of your journey with your loved one.
8. Motivate him
It’s important to always be there for your partner when his down or feeling demotivated. You are his strength and he is yours.
9. Work together
A marriage is between 2 people and not just 1. Both spouses need to work together in order for the relationship to work.
You’re a team and together you should make important decisions.
10. Do not let others come between you and your spouse.
Stand together as one and believe in each other. You need to trust your spouse.
11. Hold hands in public
I know you may say: What?…… Yes holding hands is important.
A hand is more than 4 fingers, a thumb, and a palm attached to a wrist. A hand – your hands – have the ability to show love to your husband. Your fingers are 5 little things that make a huge difference in marriage.
12. Do not go to bed angry
I rather solve the problem or cool down and sleep then going to bed frustrated and angry.
Give your partner space but do not let space become the reason for emptiness.
Some lovely Quotes:
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”
“Being in a long marriage is a little bit like that nice cup of coffee every morning – I might have it every day, but I still enjoy it.”
“The older I get, the less time I want to spend with the part of the human race that didn’t marry me.”
“A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.”